Support, NOT Perfection

Parenting is all about support, not perfection.

A perfect parent doesnt exist. Nor does a child need one. All that a child needs is a supportive parent with unconditional love to give.

Providing children with nurturing care requires immense energy and patience. This program aims to present parents with the ingredients—familiar and new alike—needed to make their own unique parenting recipe, tailored to their child’s needs and affinities.

WHY WE DO IT?

Parents and caregivers play a crucial role in laying the foundation upon which children can develop their cognitive, physical and social skills and emotional intelligence. They are their first teachers and role models.

Providing children with nurturing care requires immense energy and patience. However, in Serbia, almost every other parent/caregiver reports being exhausted and not having enough self-time.

THIS IS HOW WE DO IT

  • EXPERIENCE SHARING

    The program consists of 10 free workshops, which are held on a weekly basis with a small group of 15 to 20 parents/caregivers of children up to 6 years of age. Participants share their experiences and develop a mutual support network. They can also bring their children during workshops, while teachers trained by our team organize activities for them.

  • PROFESSIONAL SUPPORT

    The Support, not Perfection program was developed by our experts who personally train and supervise the facilitators who, in turn, lead these workshops. The facilitators, with the experience and knowledge in the field of pedagogy and psychology, help guide participants through various parenting challenges.

  • EMPOWERMENT, NOT QUICK FIXES

    The program is not designed to provide a quick and easy solution to parenting challenges, because there is no universal manual that works for every child and every parent. However, this program does offer strategies to deal with challenging situations, but it is up to parents to choose which strategy they want to try and apply.

  • LONG-TERM POSITIVE EFFECTS

    The biggest effects observed during the implementation of the program are aimed at reducing negative parental methods (shouting, insulting, beating). Based on the participants evaluation, after completing the program, they highlighted fewer mental health concerns and significantly greater marital satisfaction. Moreover, they reported that their children showed fewer emotional, behavioral and disciplinary problems.

  • PARENT CENTERS

    The brand new component of our SNP program is the opening of our 15 parenting centers. These spaces have been created to serve as the resource centers where parents can meet up in a pleasant and creative ambiance where they will acquire new knowledge and skills, and develop a mutual network of support.
    Check the map below to see where you can find these centers and how you can join them.

PARENT CENTERS

Officially starting in 2021, this new and exciting project is dedicated to the adaptation and furnishing of institutions hosting the Support, NOT Perfection program, as well as other programs aimed at empowering parents and families in everyday challenges that growing up of a child brings. The newly created premises where parents and caregivers will receive the necessary education to raise their children are multifunctional, modern, and authentic.

Parent Centers are also meant to remind them that anything can be put on hold. Anything but love. It is a key ingredient to any family’s happiness. Once firmly established, the spaces that our Foundation is renovating, together with our partners Generali Insurance Serbia and The Human Safety Net, are projected to remain within the possession of the preschool.

OUR RESULTS

Workshop Hours

Children Impacted

Trained Facilitators

Trained Teachers

SEE THE COMMUNITIES WE CHANGE

Our Support, not Perfection program strengthens local communities all across Serbia. Click on the map and take a closer look at them.

Meet Smiljana and Nina - the authors of the Support, not Perfection program.

  • SMILJANA GRUJIC

    Smiljana is our program manager, a psychologist and psychotherapist with extensive experience in working with parents and children. The focus of her work is compassionate communication and emotional management.

  • NINA SOKOLOVIC

    Nina is a doctoral candidate in Developmental Psychology and Education at the University of Toronto. Her research focuses on how to support parents and educators to promote children's early development. She holds a Bachelor's summa cum laude and Master's degree from Harvard University.

The scalability of Support, NOT Perfection and its contribution to the improvement of parent and child well-being was recognized by the European Journal of Developmental Psychology. Read more about it right here.

If you are also eager to learn more about parenting, check out our Novak Djokovic Foundation Online Academy.

Youll find interactive courses on various topics lead by our team of experts that can help you build a stronger bond with your child.

TESTIMONIALS

  • - Mother Tamara Perovic

    "We realized that we are not such bad parents, but rather that we sometimes miss creative problem-solving tools that can replace disciplinary measures that do not do us nor the children any good."

  • - Father Stefan Peric

    “The realization that all the challenges you are facing are faced by other parents as well and that sense of belonging are very empowering and motivating.”

  • - Mother Tamara Perovic

    "We realized that we are not such bad parents, but rather that we sometimes miss creative problem-solving tools that can replace disciplinary measures that do not do us nor the children any good."

OUR PARTNERS

Since October 2018, the Support, not Perfection program has been implemented in partnership with the Generali Osiguranje Serbia and the Human Safety Net.

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